Reverend Paul Anthony Daniels, an Episcopal priest, shares his unique perspective on love, desire, and faith in a modern world filled with hookup apps. Despite his unconventional approach to relationships, Daniels believes in the power of intimacy and connection, both spiritually and physically. As a trailblazer in his community, he challenges traditional notions of love and opens doors of possibility for others seeking liberation in their desires.
Daniels, a PhD candidate and lecturer on sexual socialities as theological questions, navigates his relationship to desire by following his life motto: “Follow desire.” Through his experiences on dating apps like Instagram, Hinge, Tinder, and Jack’d, Daniels explores the complexities of modern romance and the impact of consumerist culture on relationships.
As he reflects on his journey, Daniels discusses the challenges of body standards and self-consciousness in the gay community, particularly on hookup apps. Despite facing rejection and insecurities, Daniels remains committed to pursuing love with grace and bravery, guided by his love of God and love in general.
In a world where fantasy and reality blend online, Daniels emphasizes the importance of resisting oppressive systems and embracing mercy and love as fundamental Christian principles. As he continues to navigate the intersection of faith, desire, and intimacy, Daniels remains steadfast in his belief in the transformative power of love, regardless of societal norms or expectations.